Obnoxious much?
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Too much partying, Part 2
I took Blake and Sydney to school, and we were just a minute or two late. And the tardy team wanted to give them tardy slips. Seriously, y'all? We're here ONLY for a party, and we'll be out of here by 9:30. Why do we need to record that we were 1 minute and 45 seconds late?
Their parties were very usual, and I actually really love these times that I get to meet their friends and have real conversations with their teachers and the friends' mothers. Here's Syd and her friends with their teacher.
By the way, her teacher this year is amazing. She understands the girl drama, and she does such a great job of helping the girls build relationships. She's no nonsense, but she has a great sense of humor, and she loves to teach. I love her.
And here's Blake with his teacher:
She, too, is amazing. She's awesome with the kids, giving each of them an endearing nickname, and fostering their individual skills. She's VERY organized, and I really enjoy the days I get to work for her in the workroom. Blake adores her, and I feel so fortunate that the Lord saw fit to give each of my kids teachers who are perfect for their learning styles.
When we left the school, we ran by the house to pick up the little guys. (Thank you, Uncle James, for staying the morning with them and feeding them breakfast. You rock.) Then we took them to their OTHER school for their Christmas parties. And yes, they're in two schools, but only for the months of November and December because we're in the midst of switching them over. Come January, they'll be enrolled in only one school for two days a week. (Did you really need to know that?)
But what I love about this little school is that it's little. And it's sweet. And it's informal. Yet the kids learn a ton and I feel so safe leaving them in a place where they're nurtured and cared for. Brady's class did a sweet little play, and he was a shepherd. He stepped up and sang his part beautifully, all the while tossing around that sad little stuffed sheep.
Friday, December 18, 2009
Too much partying, Part 1
Anyway, we'll start with Thursday because it was probably the most hilarious. Brady and Max attend a little MDO in Boerne, and their Christmas program each year is OUT OF CONTROL.
The children are trained to yell songs over funky recordings of Christmas carols, and we parents line up to take pictures like the paparazzi. Really, seriously, over the top for a bunch of preschoolers. But we do it. We do it because we love them.
So the morning starts with the actual program. I was sitting in a place where I couldn't even see Max, so there are no pictures of him, and honestly, I have no idea how well he performed. Does that make me a horrible mother?
But Brady was hilarious. He started the program sweet like this.
Then he began making faces at me like this. (Please note the little girl in the pink cowboy boots that so obviously scream "Merry Christmas". Welcome to Texas.)
Then he began play-fighting the little boy next to him like this (which I actually found more entertaining than the program itself).
After the program was over (and not a moment too soon), parents were supposed to take the kids to their classrooms. Brady wasn't about to let me out of his sight, so we went to Max's classroom, where Santa was waiting for him. Max, as usual, lunged for Santa and loved on him like he's known him all his life.
We then snuck out of the room to take Brady to his classroom for his party. That's when we encountered Santa again. Man, for an old guy, he moves fast. (Look closely...the preschool had managed to find TWO suits, so the morning moved along much faster. Thank you, preschool.)
This was our last day at this particular preschool, and we will miss them. They are a sweet bunch of ladies who work hard to provide a place where parents can feel safe leaving their children to be loved on. I hope they know what an awesome ministry they provide.
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Facebook is good for something
But sometimes it's awesome. I've been able to catch up with friends I'd forgotten I had. And with friends that I treasured in my teens. And while it's totally surreal that we're all grownups now, with our own children, it's great to catch up. At our core, we probably haven't changed all that much. At least most of us haven't. We're more kind and more forgiving and more mature. But we still possess the same personalities that drew us to each other in the beginning.
So this week, Maria (LAHS class of 1991) and her clan came to dinner. They currently live in Colorado, and they lived in California for several years, making her the most amazing wine country tour guide (my deepest thanks to her for her guidance on our trip this past year). She is now married to an Englishman, which means she now uses the word "lovely" and says a lot of things with a British accent. Her little boys are gorgeous, and she is a "lovely" mother. I was thrilled to have her sweet family in our home.
(Please, no comments about the hat. It had been a long day, and I never had a chance to shower. I'm begging SOMEBODY to tell me that I'm not alone here.)
Anyway, the boys ran around all evening like houligans. Syd went to bed early, so she's absent from the really perfect picture we managed to get of all of our boys. I don't care who it is, when you get this many little boys together, you're blessed if only one of them is screaming bloody murder. Lovely.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
More flags, more fun
We went straight to Santa, who was the most awesome Santa ever.
Too bad my photography skills are so lacking. And too bad I couldn't get all four kids to smile and look at the camera AT THE SAME TIME. Oh, well. Some day.
Santa really took his time, and it was so sweet. But check out Brady's hair. What on earth was going on there?
I will say that Santa might have been playing favorites just a little. He LOVED Max and threatened to take him home to the North Pole. I thought about letting him give it a go because have you spent more than an hour with Max lately? Santa would be back. Like I always say to Max, "It's a good thing you're so darn cute." And it is. A very good thing.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Humor me
Earlier this week I asked my little guys what they wanted to be when they grow up. This is what they said:
Brady: A knight who flies in an airplane and kills dragons.
Max: An elephant.
Brady: You're a boy. You can't grow up to be an elephant.
Max: Oh. A guy that wears an elephant costume. And scares birds.
Ba-dum-bum. And they're only two and three. I cannot WAIT to see what these two grow up to become.
And if you've only met Blake, it's easy to mistake him for completely and totally serious. He definitely thinks a lot, and he is often pretty serious. But that kid has a sense of humor that I just adore. Recently, he's been studying the Alamo at school (we live in San Antonio, after all). He had to make up some multiple choice questions about the Alamo, and this is what he came up with:
1. Who brought 14 more men to the USA army?
a. Davy Crockett
b. the New York army
c. George W. Bush
2. What did Texas become?
a. a place for weirdos
b. a giant cup of hot cocoa
c. independent
3. What did the Alamo become?
a. a library
b. a national landmark
c. Santa Claus's house
And yes, I am aware that Texas has indeed become a place for weirdos.
Praise God for the gift of laughter. And Praise God that He has blessed us so lavishly with that particular gift in this home.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Fancy family
In other news, Sydney is doing a fabulous job of teaching Brady his letters. She will make a fabulous teacher and mother some day. He spends hours making B's and P's and a whole bunch of other letters that he really likes to think he knows, but really hasn't a clue quite yet. I love that he's taken this sudden interest in using crayons appropriately, and he's always so proud of himself. Who wouldn't love that grin?
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
It's all in the family
But once again, I did a dreadful job of taking pictures. I did not take a single picture of either set of grandparents or of the in-laws. I know, it's like I'm discriminating against AARP. I wish I had a decent excuse, but I don't. I'm just really bad at remembering to take pictures, even though I own at least three cameras.
But thanks to Dale and Larry for being the most awesome in-laws ever. Dale is so natural in the kitchen, and she thinks of everything I forget, which pretty much means she thinks of everything. And Larry, oh, sweet Larry, is the dishwasher. And he never complains. Love that.
My sweet Nonnie showed up early for dinner to help out. She vacuumed my carpets for me and shined up my dining room table. And she acted as if it were an honor to do so.
Grandma made her famous pralines, which were gobbled up rather quickly. Yum.
James, uncle-extraordinaire, is always up for a story, and he suckers for Max's little smile every time. And Max adores him for it. As a side-note, they are reading a Justice League story, and Max always points to Wonder Woman and calls her Mommy. Love that kid.
There were lots of gifts from grandparents. The kids love to open their treasures. Syd loves to model hers. This kid was born for the camera and the stage.
I love being in regular communication with my grandparents, and now with my uncle B. I grew up making laundry-room-recordings with him, and at the risk of offending other uncles (like any of them actually read this), Brian was always my favorite. As he and his amazing wife Carla sat at my kitchen table, I asked him if he ever would have dreamed when I was seven and belting "Elvira" at the top of my lungs that he would one day sit in my kitchen on Thanksgiving, watching my four children play with his dog. I think his response was something like, "No, that pretty much still blows my mind." Um, mine too.
Speaking of uncle B's dog, Jake was the guest of honor, as far as the kids were concerned. Carla has done a fabulous job training him, and we adore him. Now if I could just talk her into training a dog for us.
Sydney has been begging for a dog for...well, pretty much forever. Look how much she loves Jake.
Even Brady took to him. Amazing. Seriously. That dog is welcome in my home any time. And that's saying something.
They grow up so fast
Monday, November 23, 2009
Swing, batta, batta, batta
This year, we were so blessed to be part of an awesome team for Fall baseball. The coaches were wonderful, Godly men. Coach Will started each game with a big smile and an excited "Boys, tonight we get to play baseball. Isn't that awesome?" He instilled a love and passion for the game in the boys that was just inspiring to witness.
I really hope that I can learn to parent the way Coach Will coaches. Wouldn't it be amazing if we all had that kind of contagious enthusiasm?
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Actually, it's a cayman
This particular day, we were home and in our jammies all day long. (I love those days.) Brady had been playing with these little figurines for quite a while. I was just thrilled he was NOT playing with a Diego "guy". At some point, he put them in perfect poses and asked in his sweetest voice if I would PLEASE take some pictures. How could I refuse?
Diego strikes again.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
My baby loves Toby Mac
About a half hour later, we were in the car, and that song started playing. Max declared it "his" song, and began singing along. I was in awe of how many words and notes he actually hit correctly.
I said, "Max, that's amazing!" Brady, who cannot stand to be left out, ever, yells from the back seat, "What's amazing?!" Max replies, "This song is amazing!"
Thank you, Toby Mac. And thank you, KLOVE.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Sydney's post, Edition 1
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Overheard this week:
Brady: I need to go potty.
Max: I go potty too.
Brady: No, Max. When you poop, someone just changes you.
Max: Otay.
James: Just because I AM a poor college student doesn't mean I have to LIVE like one.
Me: Um, actually, that's exactly what it means.
And this is where a few of you are wondering who the heck James is. You will likely remember him as JJ or Jas. He's my little brother, and he's living with us for the summer. And wow, I have a lot of blog catching up to do. I'll try to do that soon. Where has the summer gone? And why doesn't the fall get here quicker? I'm dying for some routine, some sanity, a clean house and a pedicure!
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Bible Stories with Brady
Zaccheus was this man who was really short. And he was climbed up in a tree. Then God came by and said, "Come down for dinner."
Pretty good for three years old, right?
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Camping converts
But I love Garner State Park.
We went for the weekend a few weeks ago and stayed in cabins, along with five other families from our small group at church. I believe the official count was 12 adults and 18 kids. And the oldest kid was nine. And the bulk of those kids were 3 to 5 year old boys.
It was wild.
The best quote of the weekend came from Blake, of course. He said, after we'd been there for a few hours, "This is way more fun than I thought it'd be."
Poor kid. He'd been poisoned by his mother's bad attitude.
Blake hiked, played in the Frio, and played every sport anyone suggested. He was right in his element, and I'm not kidding when I say that I think he would be thrilled if we told him we were going to live permanently in one of those little cabins.
And he actually cried when we left.
Brady and Max played with friends and cars and dirt. Someone brought a bubble machine, and all the little boys had a blast just running through them.
All the kids are already asking when we're going again, and I'm thinking we might just be camping converts. It was a wonderful weekend, full of new friends and outdoor fun. God gifted us with perfect weather.
I know some of you are laughing out loud that I think staying in a cabin is actually camping, but just remember that it IS more rustic than the La Quinta.
I say a lot of bad words.
Blake told me this evening that he told some kid on his bus that his mom says a lot of bad words. When I asked which words those would be, he answered, "You know, Mom, the d- word and the s- word."
God bless my sweet 6 year old who believes the worst words you can say are "dumb" and "stupid". May he always be so sweet and innocent.
And may I learn to control my tongue better.
Friday, May 1, 2009
Adventures in potty training
Because I am so eager to rid my home of the dreaded diapers, I decided to potty train Brady and Max together. Seemed like a good idea at the time.
In their Easter baskets, each boy got big boy underpants. I bought two little potties, thinking I could seat them simultaneously and read one book to both boys while they magically learned to "make something" in the potty. Seemed like such a brilliant idea.
On the appointed morning, I got them both out of bed, announced my plan, stripped them of their diapers, and put their new underpants on them. Brady was delighted with his Diego underwear. Max screamed at the sight of his Lightning McQueen underwear. It took me several minutes just to get them on him.
When it was time to sit on the potty for the first time, Brady immediately "made something". And by something, I mean the smallest drop of pee I've ever seen. But I cheered anyway, because it was better than nothing, right? Max screamed at the sight of his adorable little frog potty. I literally held him on the potty with one hand while shouting the book I was reading over his tantrum. When I'd finally had enough, Brady said very seriously, "Max didn't make nothin'". I was beginning to sense that my brilliant idea may not work out so well.
The entire morning, every time I put Brady on the potty, he squeezed out a few drops like a real champ. And Max screamed bloody murder and refused to make anything.
Then all at once, Max, standing (praise God) on the tiled kitchen floor, began to pee, frozen in his tracks and screaming "Oh, no, wa-wa, oh, no, wa-wa!" over and over again. All I could do was laugh. Oh, how I wish I had a video of that.
Side note: It reminded me of the first time Blake realized what was going on as he peed, naked and running in circles screaming. Again, wish I had a video.
It was then that I decided that one for two isn't such a bad record, and I could just let Max be a baby for a little while longer.
So Max's first potty training adventure lasted about four hours. I guess I'll continue buying Luvs in bulk, for now.
But the good news is Brady is still doing awesome.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
I warned you
Right now, as a matter of fact.
A couple of letters I've written lately prepared me for this post, and I feel like I have no choice but to write it. So here goes.
This morning, the Lord woke me up early.
And by that, I mean that Brady was screaming for a drink from the top bunk at 5:15.
And that screaming woke Max.
It took me about 15 minutes to get them both back down. Brady was easy enough, but Max took a little cuddling, which I've learned to enjoy, no matter what the hour.
But by the time I got back into bed at 5:30, I knew He wouldn't let me rest easily. I knew He was calling me to my kitchen table. To my Bible. To Him.
So after another 15 minutes of trying to convince God that I'd have plenty of time to talk to Him later, that right now, sleep was more important, I got out of bed, made a pot of coffee, and sat down to listen.
My sister-in-law, Sara, told me recently that she's adopted the philosophy that if she hears something three times from three different places, she listens particularly close because it's usually God speaking to her.
If this holds true, then God has been shouting at me lately.
Here's what He's been saying: He knows my name.
I know. Seems simple, right?
But in this season of my life, I've discovered, for the first time, that He loves ME. Not we, the people. Not we, the church. But ME, Amy.
He knows me and loves me in a deeper way than I can even imagine, though I catch glimpses of it at 5:15 a.m. when my almost-two-year-old snuggles into me.
In Exodus 33, God tells Moses that He knows Moses by name. And then he lets Moses see His glory. I've always been fascinated by this story. I'm such a visual person, and I wonder what Moses actually saw. It used to frustrate me that God only allowed Moses to see Him from behind. I mean, really, who is He to tell me that I can't see ALL of Him?
Um, God, that's who.
He loves me so much and longs to meet me face to face. But He knows what I'm ready to see. He reveals little bits and pieces of Himself to me every day.
When I believe that He's holding back from me, Satan wins.
My God, Creator of the Universe, knows my name. HE LOVES ME.
And He woke me up early this morning just to tell me so.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
We got rhythm
Almost.
I don't remember how it got started. But Andy started banging on the table, clapping his hands and singing "We will, we will rock you..." You know the tune, right? So of course, Blake joins in. Then Brady, despite having fever and feeling crummy, found great delight in being one of the "big boys". And then, of course, because Brady can't do anything without his personal copycat mimicking his every move, Max started in, too, laughing maniacally the entire time.
Sydney and I just stared with our mouths hanging open. We are so outnumbered around here. And neither of us bothered to remind the boys about the "no singing at the table" rule.
The good news is that all three boys show excellent rhythmic talent.
Good thing they now make electronic drum sets with headphones. It doesn't matter what they cost. The day one of them says they want to play the drums, I'm so buying one.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Feast or Famine
Not that anyone really reads this, but I'd like to journal for the benefit of my own memory.
I'm gearing up for another feast, so if anyone is reading this, check back soon and often. I have all kinds of things to say about Blake's soccer season, Max turning two, Sydney's talent show audition, and Brady's potty training adventures.
I'm also toying with the idea of stepping outside the usual "blogging about kids only" to talk about a few things the Lord has written on my heart lately. He has revealed Himself in big ways to me these past few months, and I might explode if I don't get it down in writing.
So there's lots brewing inside my head. I'm making a commitment to write 30 mins. per day. We'll see how that translates into actual posts.
Peace out, y'all.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Crazy things you see on the Riverwalk
And Monday, we went for dinner in conjunction with a convention something-or-other in town for Andy's industry. I nearly laughed out loud as I found myself one of two women on a river taxi LOADED with guys in suits. Guys in suits sitting knee to knee and shoulder to shoulder, most of them wondering why on earth river taxis don't have first class seating. What a sight we must have been. Oh, how I wished for my camera.
When we arrived at our destination (note to self: the Westin Hotel is different from the Weston Centre), there was a little Latin man in a fedora and white suit coat crooning jazz. Another photo op missed.
The music was great. Dinner was okay. But what I found out that evening is that my husband is a stud. He is apparently very good at what he does, and all his peers like him. Really, really like him. Not that I'm surprised. Okay, maybe I'm a little surprised at just HOW awesome he is. He's always been the best-looking man in any given room full of refining-industry types (not that it takes much). And he's always been what I refer to as "scary smart". But I love that he's so well-liked and respected. It makes me proud.
I felt like a princess that evening. But only because I was on the arm of the prince.
I am certainly blessed well beyond what I deserve.
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Snow Day
Friday, March 13, 2009
The Cave of the Winds
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Nana and Pop's
Los Alamos is this weird but wonderful place. It seems to be frozen in time. And although that is a little freaky, it's also comforting.
I'm going to miss the strange little city on the hill, and the beautiful stucco home I grew up in. I'll miss the mountains. I'll miss the canyons. I'll miss seeing someone I know at nearly every shop I enter. I'll miss the smell of roasting green chile in the farmer's market in August. I'll miss the fact that the local newspaper (the Monitor, nicknamed the Moronitor) claims that every lead in every show ever produced by the Los Alamos Light Opera is "ready for Broadway". I'll miss the stuffed sopapillas topped with yummy green chile at De Colores. I'll miss breakfast burritos from a little shack that must be able to afford a nicer building by now, but insists on staying in the shack. I'll miss the parks...lots and lots of awesome parks. I'll miss being able to walk from our home to the most awesome hiking trail. I'll miss walking to my high school and suddenly realizing that the day was too gorgeous to go to school and heading for said hiking trail instead. I'll miss that on Thursdays, all the shops in town are open "late til 8". I'll miss the fact that I wasn't the only kid in any given room whose father was a nuclear physicist.
I made some wonderful memories there. And I'm thrilled to have spent the week making even more memories there with my children. I'm a little sad at the prospect of another family living in my house. And I'm sad to no longer have an easy reason to return to quirky, beautiful Los Alamos.
But enough with the nostalgia.
The kids always have a ball at Nana and Pop's. Nana works hard at finding fun things to do, and they have a bunch of fun stuff to do in their yard. But if all they had was a trampoline, Sydney, Blake and Brady would be perfectly happy.
Max, on the other hand, loves the playhouse and the sandbox.
All in all, it was a great week. More to come about our snow adventure. And it was an awesome way to say goodbye to my mountains.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Brady's Three (Part Two)
We celebrated Brady's third birthday in Los Alamos with my parents in the home I grew up in. Andy and I had actually spent the previous night in Santa Fe at the Hilton, so we came home mid-day to celebrate. We tried to do as many of Brady's favorite things that day as possible. We'd planned to do a tour of playgrounds, but it was cold and windy. We went to three different shops before we found a donut. Mom provided a cake, and we had a low-key family celebration.
We all just keep feeding the Diego frenzy. Mom and Dad gave Brady a Diego radio that came with a little toy camin (and Brady had to tell the rest of us that the little alligator was, in fact, a camin). We bought him this authentic rescue pack and a game to play on Syd's Leapster. All in all, I think he had a wonderful day.
So in his honor, here are some random facts about Brady, in no particular order:
- He loves donuts.
- He loves Diego.
- He is particularly coordinated for a three-year-old. He can take stairs one at a time, and he can play on pretty much any playground without help.
- He sleeps with a yellow blanket that was actually a shower gift before Syd's birth. He calls it "beebee".
- He still shows very little interest in using the potty.
- He can take all of his clothes off, but he can't really put them on yet.
- He loves school and Bible class. He may say he doesn't want to go, but he always runs right in and is beaming when we pick him up.
- He is learning to say he's sorry. But instead of asking for forgiveness, he will say, "I forgive you." (For instance, after he hits Max, he'll say, "I'm sorry I hit you Max. I forgive you.")
- His laugh is absolutely maniacal and contagious. And he laughs a lot.
- He has very high highs and very low lows. He is definitely my most emotional child. I love that he lives so fully and feels so deeply, and I pray that the Lord gives me the ability to help him channel that passion. I never, ever want him to lose it.
- He's always hungry, yet rarely eats what is good for him. The acceptable dinner foods include mac-n-cheese, cheese quesadillas, pb&j, cheese ravioli and spaghetti.
- He has an awesome imagination. He frequently takes a few plastic animals outside so he can "rescue" them Diego style. And he finds new uses for toys that I would have considered broken or trashed. I remember one time I tried to throw away an old plastic tube that I think might have been part of some swim toy at one time. He found it in the trash and waved it in my face, saying "Mom, this is not trash. This is a TOY. We don't throw away toys!"
- He loves to spell. But most everything is spelled "P-L-U-D".
- His favorite dance is the robot dance. Check him out:
I'm sure I'll think of a thousand other things I love about him after I finish publishing this post, but that's a good start. He has made my world so joyful, and I can't imagine what we would do without him. He is our comic relief and source of constant entertainment. He's an amazing kid. I've wondered with each child how I could possibly love them as much as I love the others. And I think as a mama, I love all of my children equally, but differently. I definitely have a special bond with Brady. He's one of the greatest surprises the Lord has ever given me, and I thank God for him every day.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Secret Garden
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Bradyisms
My daughter is a youtube rock star.
Like my new look?
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Brady's Three (Part One)
Yes, that is a sugar Diego-head in the middle of that cupcake. Brady thought it was great fun to eat his head. So much fun, in fact, that he probably ate three or four heads. Can you say sugar high?
Make a wish.
Blow out the candles.
Yay, I did it!
Mmmm.
Max loves him some chocolate cupcakes.
Brady loves his Gran and Grandad.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
A REALLY cold Cowboy Breakfast
It could have been a lot of fun if not for all the wind. The little guys were miserable and ended up going back to the house with Gran and Grandad before too long. (A big thank you to Gran and Grandad!) Blake and Sydney disappeared with friends until we finally rounded everyone up to go home. Here's hoping for better weather for next year's Cowboy Breakfast.
Monkey see, monkey do
And of course, when I make a video of Max, Brady has to get in on the action too:
How can you hear that infectious belly laugh and not smile?
